When my husband Mike tossed $20 at me and demanded I cook a Thanksgiving feast for his family, I realized I was done being his personal chef, maid, and doormat. He thought I’d let it slide, but I planned to serve him something unforgettable this Thanksgiving.
For two years, I bent over backward to keep Mike and his family happy. But every meal I cooked and every spotless room I cleaned only seemed to remind them of what they thought I owed them.
So, this year, I decided it was time to show them just how much they’d underestimated me.
When Mike and I married two years ago, I thought I’d found my forever partner. We were happy, or at least I thought we were.
Then, little by little, things started to change.
At first, it was the small things like Mike leaving his dirty laundry wherever he pleased or expecting me to handle the groceries. But then his parents, Maureen and Richard, began treating me like I had married into their family to become their unpaid chef and housekeeper.
Maureen would make sly comments whenever they visited.
“A wife who cooks for her husband every night is a blessing,” she’d say.
Richard wasn’t much better. He was always “joking” about how I should consider opening a catering business since I was already “running one for free.” I tried to let it roll off my back, but their constant remarks and expectations were exhausting.
The worst, though, was a few weeks ago.
Maureen had called, announcing that she and Richard would be “dropping by for dinner.”
Dropping by, of course, meant staying for hours and criticizing my cooking.
When I suggested ordering takeout, Maureen gasped, “Takeout? For family? Oh no, Alyssa. You’ve set the bar too high to lower it now.”
Meanwhile, Mike just shrugged and said, “You’ll figure it out. You always do.”
Why didn’t I answer back? Why didn’t I tell them to cook their own meals? The truth is, I wanted to keep the peace. I wanted to keep Mike happy.
But the love I had for him wore thinner with every passing day.
This brings us to Thanksgiving.
I knew it would be small because we’d just invited Mike’s parents and his two brothers. But even a small Thanksgiving meant a mountain of expectations for me.
Two weeks before the holiday, Mike decided to take his laziness to a new level.
We were sitting at the kitchen table, going over our budget. Money had been tight lately. Tight enough that I’d been quietly setting aside what little I could from grocery runs, knowing Mike’s spending habits weren’t exactly responsible.
He slid the last $20 bill we had across the table and said with a grin, “Here, make Thanksgiving dinner with this.”
I laughed. “Mike, $20? That won’t even cover a turkey.”
“Well,” he said, leaning back in his chair, “Mom always managed to make amazing dinners with no money. Figure it out. Don’t embarrass me in front of my family.”
I couldn’t believe it.
For two years, I had poured my heart into this marriage, only to have him throw this at me.
As he walked away, smug and oblivious, something in me snapped. I wasn’t going to cry this time. I wasn’t going to fight. I was going to plan.
Because if Mike thought I could “figure it out,” I’d show him just how clever I could be.
For the next few days, I played along, keeping my anger bottled up beneath a calm façade. Every time Mike asked if I’d “figured out” Thanksgiving, I smiled and assured him everything would be perfect.
He even had the nerve to brag to his brothers over the phone about how “resourceful” I was. Meanwhile, I quietly started putting my plan into motion.
That $20 Mike so generously offered? It stayed exactly where he left it.
Instead, I dipped into my savings. The same savings Mike never knew about because he always assumed I didn’t need my own money.
I wasn’t just planning a dinner. I was planning a statement.
I ordered a catered Thanksgiving feast from the best place in town. We’re talking perfectly roasted turkey, creamy mashed potatoes, fresh-baked rolls, three kinds of pie, and even fancy cranberry sauce.
I also picked up beautiful table settings and decorations because if I was going out, I was going out with style.
The night before Thanksgiving, as I worked to set everything up, Mike walked into the kitchen with his usual smug grin.
“I knew you’d pull it off,” he said. “You’re lucky to have a husband who believes in you.”
Lucky? I almost laughed.
He actually thought he was doing me a favor by throwing me crumbs of validation. But instead of arguing, I just smiled and said, “You’ll see tomorrow.”
His cluelessness was almost endearing. Almost.
On Thanksgiving morning, the house looked like something out of a holiday catalog. The table was set with gold chargers and matching napkins, the food was ready to be reheated to perfection, and the smell of roasted turkey filled the air.
Mike didn’t notice the takeout containers neatly hidden in the trash bin. He was too busy basking in the idea of his family’s approval.
By the time his parents and brothers arrived, the stage was set.
“You guys are in for a treat,” he told his family.
His mom, Maureen, scanned the living room like a drill sergeant inspecting the troops.
“Hmm, you missed a spot on that shelf,” she muttered, pointing to a dust-free surface.
I smiled politely. “I’ll make a note for next time.”
That’s when Richard chuckled and patted Mike on the back.
“You picked a good one, son,” he said as he looked around the house. “Alyssa’s a keeper.”
“Yeah, she’s great,” Mike said, lounging on the couch like a king. “I gave her a tight budget, and she still managed to pull this off. Can’t wait for you to taste it.”
Tight budget? I thought. Is that what you call a budget? Twenty dollars?
I wanted to confront him there and then, but I stayed quiet and waited for the right moment.
Finally, dinner was served. As they loaded their plates, the compliments started pouring in.
“This turkey is so moist,” one of his brothers said.
“The cranberry sauce tastes like it’s homemade,” Maureen added, her usual condescension replaced by genuine admiration.
Then, Mike raised his glass.
“To Alyssa, the best cook in the family!” he said.
I took a deep breath and stood, holding my own glass. “Thank you, Mike. That means a lot. But I’d like to say a few words before we dig in.”
That’s when all eyes turned to me. The room fell silent as my gaze shifted from Maureen to Richard, and then to my dearest husband.
“This year, I wanted to make Thanksgiving truly special,” I began. “You see, Mike gave me a generous $20 budget to work with, so I had to get a little creative.”
Maureen’s fork froze mid-air, and Richard glanced at Mike, who shifted uncomfortably in his chair. Meanwhile, his brothers exchanged awkward looks. They couldn’t believe Mike expected me to prepare a lavish dinner with just twenty bucks.
“But you know,” I continued, “while I was planning this dinner, I realized something important. It’s not just about the food or the decorations. It’s about the effort and respect that go into making a home feel like a family. And then it hit me… I’ve been doing this alone for two years.”
Mike cleared his throat. “Honey, maybe now’s not the time—”
“Oh, I think it’s the perfect time,” I said, cutting him off. “Because while I was cooking, cleaning, and making this house look perfect for you and your family, I also realized I deserve better. I deserve more than being treated like a maid or a personal chef.”
Maureen’s face turned red. “Alyssa, we’ve always appreciated you—”
“Have you?” I asked, my voice calm but firm. “Because it doesn’t feel like it when you criticize everything I do or expect me to cater to you like it’s my job.”
Suddenly, Mike stood up.
“Alyssa, you’re blowing this out of proportion,” he said. “Everyone’s enjoying the meal. Let’s not ruin the holiday, please.”
I smiled sweetly. “Oh, don’t worry, Mike. The meal won’t be ruined. But before we continue, I should mention one more thing. This dinner? It’s takeout from the fancy catering place you said we couldn’t afford.”
I almost wanted to laugh after seeing Maureen and Richard’s faces. They looked at their plates like they were betrayed.
“You used catering?” Maureen finally sputtered.
“Yes,” I said. “Because after everything I’ve done for this family, I figured I’d give myself a break. And you know what? It was worth every penny.”
I set my glass down and turned to Mike.
“Oh, and one more thing,” I said. “This is the last Thanksgiving dinner I’ll ever make for your family. You can figure out next year’s meal on your own. Maybe Maureen can teach you her magic. She can tell you how she manages to cook meals with no money!”
With that, I grabbed my purse and walked to the door, leaving behind a table full of stunned faces.
The cool November air hit my face as I slammed the door shut behind me. And honestly, it didn’t feel bad. I felt so refreshed and that was all because I stood up for myself.
I got into my car and drove to the park where I used to go before I got married. I parked my car there, pulled out the bottle of wine I’d packed, and poured myself a cup using the thermos lid.
A solo Thanksgiving never felt so liberating.
Meanwhile, my phone buzzed nonstop with calls and texts from Mike. I ignored them at first, but curiosity got the better of me. The messages were a mix of anger and desperation.
What the hell, Alyssa? You embarrassed me in front of my family!
Come back, and we’ll talk about this. You’re overreacting.
You don’t have to do this. Let’s fix it.
Fix it? The irony made me laugh. I’d spent two years fixing things for him, including his meals, his messes, and his reputation with his family.
Now he wanted to fix me. It was almost comical.
By the time I got home later that night, the house was dark and quiet. I walked in, half expecting Mike to ambush me with another smug excuse or half-hearted apology.
Instead, the table was still set, plates half-empty, and the catered turkey sat untouched. A few chairs were pushed back, as though my in-laws had left in a hurry.
I couldn’t help but smirk. Maybe the shock had finally shut them up.
The next day, Mike cornered me in the kitchen.
“You can’t just walk out like that, Alyssa!” he protested. “You made me look like a fool.”
“Did I?” I asked, arching an eyebrow. “Or did you make yourself look like a fool by treating me like I wasn’t worth more than $20?”
His face turned red, but he didn’t argue.
Instead, he muttered something about how his parents had been “too hard” on me. It was the closest thing to an apology I’d ever get from him, but it wasn’t enough. Not anymore.
A week later, I served him divorce papers. He looked at me like I’d just told him the world was ending.
“You’re serious?” he asked, as though the thought had never crossed his mind.
“Dead serious,” I replied. “Because I finally realized I deserve better.”
And I did.
In the weeks that followed, I felt lighter than I had in years. Mike moved out, and the house, once filled with tension and unmet expectations, became a place of peace.
Soon, I decorated for Christmas, treating myself to a tree decked out with ornaments I loved.
And for the first time in years, I wasn’t dreading the holidays. I was looking forward to them. Because this time, they were mine, and I didn’t have to worry about anyone else’s opinions.
